Comments on: How Can I Help Someone Build Confidence?

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By: Andy Golay

Andy Golay — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 14:34:36 +0000

Hi Diana,

Great point about not telling people how they “should” act. Another thing that used to bother me, when i wasn’t confident, was people asking me, “Are you Okay?” i worked on strategies for dealing with that question (including giving people a little piece of paper that says “Hello, you have received this paper because you asked whether Andy Golay is ‘Okay.’ [then goes off on a bit of a rant inferring that the 'helpful' person should ask *themselves* whether they are okay, lol]… i never actually had to use that solution, though, i suspect because preparing for the question helped me see that it’s not such a hard thing to deal with, after really considering it. But that was me helping myself, and…

When i was struggling, that question “Are you okay?” was really tough to answer. Do you have advice for people who want to help, about whether it’s good to ask the people they care about, “Are you okay?” i feel like it almost falls under the “you should” type of comments, or at least *could,* depending on who’s asking, the follow-up, tone of voice, etc… Would love your thoughts!

Thanks!

-And

By: Confidence building

Confidence building — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 01:33:56 +0000

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By: gayle

gayle — Sun, 22 May 2011 04:19:30 +0000

Each and everyone of us have roles to play, mother, father, daughter team member, brother sisiter, son, club member, walker, pet owner, when these roles start to dimnish, I think this starts lower our self esteem, we need to feel we are needed in this life and our input is valued! Just a thought, maybe to support someone with a low self esteem, look for the areas in there life that they would like to expand, increase hobbies, interests… it mite help

By: Tara

Tara — Fri, 22 Apr 2011 02:01:58 +0000

Diana- Wonderful advice! I hope that you keep on spreading this nonchalant message to more of those timid personalities that we all know and love. This blog helped me to help my boyfriend, actually. Now whenever I act lively and flamboyant, he does as well (but not in the manner some dirty minds are thinking, thank you very much). It just makes all the better! Now if only he would actually catch on to this..(: Thank you very much! Tara

By: admin

admin — Wed, 23 Mar 2011 13:09:18 +0000

Hi Josh,

I found Rhonda Britten books very helpful. Fearless Living and change your life in 30 days. Other good books are Jack Canfields, Maximum Confidence and Success Principles.

To your confident life!

By: Josh

Josh — Wed, 09 Mar 2011 19:02:10 +0000

I have been reading a few posts similar to your’s, when I see a pattern of the same thing being said it becomes clearer. I read a post on how to look confident which ties in with what you were saying about how a person walks, talks acts etc. – http://www.buildconfidence.co.uk/how-to-look-confident.php

Are there any good books that can help boost low self esteem in a working area in particular? I suffer with lack of confidence in my team, I have known them for about 3 months but I still don’t feel confident enough around them to be myself.

Thanks,

Josh

By: admin

admin — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 19:15:26 +0000

Thank you for sharing your insights. May you and your wife grow together.

To your Joyous future!
Diana

By: Lewis

Lewis — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 03:11:05 +0000

I did a search to help myself learn how to help my wife. I found this site and began to read.
Needless to say I also learned how to help myself as well as my wife. (I also learned what my wife needed.) Just goes to show when you think you are doing it right, you may actually be doing it wrong.
I was wrong, I am now corrected, and I wager my wife and I shall have a better future.
Thank you Diana.